Meeting Other Caregivers

Yesterday I had the pleasure of meeting other caregivers at The San Diego Tribune Caregivers Expo. The majority of caregivers I met were Alzheimer Caregivers as I was there with my book, My Life Rearranged, about caring for my husband who had early-onset-Alzheimer’s. However, I met a few others dealing with Parkinson’s, which has crossover symptoms. It was a picture perfect day as the weather was wonderful and the program and exhibitors were beneficial to all caregivers.

Being a former caregiver, I am still surprised by the resilience, honesty, and kindness of caregivers as I listened to their various stories. It is a often a heart wrenching time in one’s life, a difficult job at best, and a lonely endeavor. Yet, caregivers rise to the occasion. I was touched as I talked with the following caregivers: a woman whose husband was newly diagnosed and struggling with acceptance, while simultaneously starting a new life for both of them; a son caring for his elderly mother; a paid caregiving keeping Dad going, while his daughter and son worked; a woman who cares for her husband while she herself is ill. As I listened to these caregivers, it reminded me, once again, how undervalued caregivers are. The sacrifices they make to help family often go unappreciated, even sometimes by family itself. It is time to give caregivers some help in terms of tax credit. Too many are struggling to stay afloat, worried about missing days of work, concerned about their own health, and tired from long, endless days. And it is time for each of us to help and thank caregivers we know – it means so much to be appreciated. And thanks to The Tribune for this special day for all Caregivers.